New Term? 8 practical tips for how you can help your child settle swiftly!

1. Acknowledge their feelings.
Let your child know it’s okay to feel disappointed or nervous about not being with their friends.Show empathy: “I can see you’re upset, that makes sense. It’s hard when things change.”

2. Reframe the experience positively
Highlight the opportunities: new classmates, fresh friendships, different teachers to learn from.Remind them their old friendships can continue at break times, after school, and through playdates.

3. Keep friendships alive outside the classroom
Arrange get-togethers, soft-play trips, or video calls with their close friends so they don’t feel like they’ve 'lost' them.Encourage them to write little notes or make drawings for their friends as a fun way of keeping connected.

4. Build confidence with social skills
Role-play simple conversation starters (“Hi, can I join in?” or “What are you playing?”).Encourage them to notice one child who seems friendly or who also might be feeling shy.

5. Get them excited about school routines
Involve them in choosing stationery, organising uniforms, or packing their bag — little rituals can spark positivity.Create a countdown calendar to the first day, marking fun milestones. 

6. Connect with the teacher early
Share any worries with the teacher so they can support your child in class.Teachers are usually alert to friendship dynamics and can help with pairings and group activities.

7. Celebrate small wins
Ask about one positive thing each day rather than focusing on who they played with.Praise their bravery and adaptability: “I’m proud of how you said hello to someone new.”

8. Model resilience
Talk about times you had to make new friends or start something new, and how it worked out.Show them that change, while tricky, often brings growth and good surprises.